Job Search Networking: The Compliment They Will Love You For

No matter how many compliments someone gets, this is the one they will absolutely love. And remember you because of it. You’ll have to rub off your powers of observation for this, but the potential it has for increasing your relationship is worth it. All you have to do is carefully watch your partner – or someone else you would like to start a relationship with even if you aren’t talking to them at the moment. I want you to notice a quality they have, but not the first one you notice. Then we are going to compliment it in a personalized specific …

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The 3 Essential Components of Real Listening—The Ultimate Compliment

One great way to build a relationship quickly on the phone and in person is to really listen. Here are three easy ways you can do that. They let your networking contact know that you are listening and not just waiting for them to take a breath so you can jump with your comments. Think how much you enjoy being with someone who is really listening to you. First, ask questions and make comments as appropriate. Let it be clear you want the conversation to continue, that you want more information. This lets the …

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